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Mitzvos for Hurt Feelings and Bruised Friendships: Hashem's Psychological Advice for Us

Speaker:: Rabbi Tanchum Cohen
Date:: February 13 2024

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Series: Daily Shiur

Venue: YU High School for Boys YU High School for Boys

Gemara:

Aggadeta, Ketuvot, Sanhedrin, Yoma

Halacha:

Bein Adam l'Chaveiro

Machshava:

Bein Adam L'Chaveiro, Mitzvot, Rambam

Midrash:

Sifri

Nach:

Mishlei, Shmuel

Parsha:

Eikev, Kedoshim, Nitzavim

Personalities:

Rambam

Collections: The Mitzvot Bein Adam LaChaveiro

References: Yoma: 75A , Ketuvot: 111B , Sotah: 42B , Sanhedrin: 100B

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A snow-day Zoom shiur for the Wrubel Beis Midrash Katan (BMK) at MTA.

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Mitzvos for Hurt Feelings and Bruised Friendships: Hashem's Psychological Advice for Us

Series: Daily Shiur

Venue: YU High School for Boys YU High School for Boys

Gemara:

Aggadeta, Ketuvot, Sanhedrin, Yoma

Halacha:

Bein Adam l'Chaveiro

Machshava:

Bein Adam L'Chaveiro, Mitzvot, Rambam

Midrash:

Sifri

Nach:

Mishlei, Shmuel

Parsha:

Eikev, Kedoshim, Nitzavim

Personalities:

Rambam

Collections: The Mitzvot Bein Adam LaChaveiro

References: Yoma: 75A , Ketuvot: 111B , Sotah: 42B , Sanhedrin: 100B

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Mitzvos for Hurt Feelings and Bruised Friendships: Hashem's Psychological Advice for Us

Series: Daily Shiur

Venue: YU High School for Boys YU High School for Boys

Gemara: Aggadeta, Ketuvot, Sanhedrin, Yoma Halacha: Bein Adam l'Chaveiro Machshava: Bein Adam L'Chaveiro, Mitzvot, Rambam Midrash: Sifri Nach: Mishlei, Shmuel Parsha: Eikev, Kedoshim, Nitzavim Personalities: Rambam

Collections: The Mitzvot Bein Adam LaChaveiro

References: Yoma: 75A , Ketuvot: 111B , Sotah: 42B , Sanhedrin: 100B

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Gemara:

Aggadeta, Ketuvot, Sanhedrin, Yoma

Halacha:

Bein Adam l'Chaveiro

Machshava:

Bein Adam L'Chaveiro, Mitzvot, Rambam

Midrash:

Sifri

Nach:

Mishlei, Shmuel

Parsha:

Eikev, Kedoshim, Nitzavim

Personalities:

Rambam